No more sex shaming: why my 2017 will be sex-positive

"I want to be a ‘slut’. There, I said it."Read more

How stigma stops you getting a date

Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.Read more

The Ex-Factor

In a phenomenon that seems to be particular to the gay community, a lot of guys end up with a friend or two who they used to go out with. Some still go on holiday together. But how close a friend can your ex really be?Read more

The swiping game - a textual kick to the balls

In an ideal world, this is what would happen: you swipe right, they swipe right, conversation sparks, you meet, instant connection and scandalous flirtation ensue, moonlight dinner dates and long, lustful stares fill your evenings...Read more

Would you date an HIV-positive guy?

If you’re worried about an HIV-positive partner getting sick or dying then it’s time for you to realise that it’s now the 21st century.Read more

Hello my name is Tom. Fancy a date?

It’s not for the want of being single, but ever since being diagnosed HIV-positive, now nearly three years ago, my dating game has changed or completely disappeared to put it more accurately.Read more

7 Simple dates

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7 ways to get a date on Grindr

But what if you’re looking for something with a bit more substance and a bit less dick? But not having much luck, eh? Is it really Grindr that’s to blame, or is it that ‘just looking for friends but here’s my dick’ picture you’ve been sending to every man and his dog...Read more

Party Boys - Drink, Drugs, Sex, Repeat...

Life can be tough in the 21st century. Whether you’re barely keeping it together on minimum wage, or flush with an obscene banker’s bonus, the working week can consist of long hours, monotony, anxiety, deadlines, intense stress, lack of appreciation or recognition from your boss… no wonder that many of us can’t wait for the weekend!Read more

Forever single - a never ending dating game

When it comes to relationships, gay men can be some of the most jaded humans on our overly-cynical dirt ball of a planet. Which is just typical of us *eye roll*...Read more