Meet the gay men who are not out

Sometimes we in our little gay bubble forget that not all gay men come out. In our coming out survey, about 10% of those who responded told us they were not ‘out’.Read more

Gay men and the ongoing battle with coming out

One of the greatest challenges that gay men face can be summed up in two little words: coming out.Read more

How to stop HIV

In 2015, over 3,320 gay men were diagnosed HIV-positive in the UK.Read more

PrEP, discrimination and HIV stigma

I am all for PrEP. Besides being cost-effective, PrEP is an outstanding preventive tool and should be freely available to anyone needing it.Read more

What I’ve learnt from living with HIV

As I get that bit older, I tend to find that more things are becoming less important and my sense of taking each day as it comes is becoming far more accessible.Read more

How stigma stops you getting a date

Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.Read more

Do gay characters on TV help people come out?

“How do I come out?” It’s a question that I’ve been asked before and, interestingly, I always seem to start talking about TV storylines.Read more

TRUE LIFE: How I came out to my family and friends

"Like a lot of us, I’d always cast a sideways glance at that copy of Gay Times or Attitude on the top shelf of my local newsagents, and remember the all consuming wave of nausea and panic that overcame me the first time I bought one."Read more

Dear straight people...

...what should you say when someone comes out to you?Read more